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Reckoning has begun for sexual predators

A dozen years ago I had an opportunity I never sought out or wanted. Not in my wildest dreams did I think I'd sit across from an admitted sex offender and discuss his crime. It wasn't on my radio or television show. It wasn't for an essay, until now.

First, a little background. I was assaulted at an early age by a teacher at my Christian school. He hurt the older girls much worse, but it was enough to make me keep a secret, and stew on it, and harm myself in ways I wasn't conscious of. It happened again when I was 18 and again at 20. Sexual assault. When it happens over and over, you tend to find yourself the common denominator and own the blame.

A dear friend of mine in Homer had me come to his home for a visit. Jack Epperson was a healer of things most doctors don't think about. Jack was blind but could see so much damage to my spirit. He never touched me, but said he was putting my energy field back together. He explained to me sexual predators see wounded prey and won't leave it alone. He called it, "The Mark From A Beast."

[Alaska should declare a sexual assault disaster]

I tested that theory when I talked to the man who had gone to prison for molesting a young girl in his care. I felt comfortable asking because he had been very candid about his crime and he owned it. He was going to meetings constantly, stopped drinking or using drugs and was honest that it was still a struggle for him.

He looked at me and nodded his head. "He nailed it," he said. "I can see those girls from a mile away." We talked about how so many victims become promiscuous to try to take back some control. They think if they are giving it away then it can't be stolen. It's a defense mechanism.

In October, a new state study was released on the state website regarding Alaska's sexual assault statistics. As this paper reported, "It uses a different data source from the telephone survey and is based on reports to law enforcement. It also includes child victims. More than half of the reported sex crimes involve victims under age 18."

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Here's the kicker, "While the most common victim is a 14-year-old girl, the most common suspect is a 19-year-old male."

Once marked by predators, there is a lifetime of sexual assault for so many. The tear it creates in their spirit is obvious to those looking to exploit it, and they lose no time. The vices developed to cope are impossible to calculate, but none of them "make you stronger" for the long run. It's tragic beyond words.

While our Legislature prattles on about numbers and budgets and how we're going to be able to afford to support those benevolent oil companies, lives here are being shattered. In Washington, the posturing and posing is pathetic and nothing they do is protecting victims from harm. If you were a betting person you'd bet ANWR would be full of oil wells before Alaskans could feel safe from sexual assault.

[Sex crimes in Alaska: Most common victim is 14-year-old girl assaulted in a home]

Our news feeds are full of outrage about the Senate hopeful and alleged pedophile, Roy Moore from Alabama. One of his defenders mentioned that at the time Moore is alleged to have assaulted a 14-year-old, it was a misdemeanor — less of a crime than "stealing a lawnmower." If only Mr. Moore had raped a lawnmower, much of this could have been avoided. Joe Miller and the Alaska Constitution Party still support Moore. That really doesn't help our sad statistics, or our people, here at home.

Hollywood is flipping over rocks and tossing out the trash in producers and stars who have raped and abused women. Men who have played presidents on television shows are being held to a higher standard than the real one.

Sen. Al Franken pranked a sexually harassing picture and has apologized (his victim has accepted the apology) and has asked for his own ethics hearing. The president has tweeted, "The Al Frankenstien picture is really bad, speaks a thousand words. Where do his hands go in pictures 2, 3, 4, 5 & 6 while she sleeps? ….." He has yet to mention Moore's offenses and seems to find no irony in the fact that there are 12 women on the record charging him with sexual harassment — including his former wife.

Sexual assault shouldn't be politicized. It's become weaponized by political parties and the barbs go so deep that the battles can't be won for either side. Bill Clinton, Clarence Thomas, David Vitter, the list goes on because there is no end to it. Never has someone been raped who was first asked who they voted for.

If someone will sexually assault someone, what makes you think they will make sure your future is intact? Do you think they will worry about your children and their education, environment or health care? No. They are worried about getting caught. It's going to take all of us to let them know there is a reckoning coming. I think it's just beginning.

Shannyn Moore is a radio broadcaster.

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Shannyn Moore

Shannyn Moore is a radio broadcaster.

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