I’m writing in response to a June 17, 2003, ADN article titled “Alaska’s Loss,” by Peter Porco. To each person reading my thank-you letter; forgive me, it is 20 years later. In 2003, my husband and I — along with thousands of other service members — were deployed for combat operations.
My husband and his crewmate lay down their lives one fateful April night and died in action, making me a war widow at the age of 25.
Upon my return home, I felt deeply lonely but never alone! Constant comfort came in the form of hundreds of letters, a covering of prayers, memorable drawings, beautifully handmade quilts, impactful gifts, delicious meals, timely visits, listening ears and patriotic gestures — like a cemetery volunteer who ensured a wellworn KIA bracelet left at the grave was not discarded but given to me to wear.
Inspired by this all, I moved forward.
Twenty years on, I’m choosing to show gratitude to honor my husband’s sacrifice. Admittedly, I struggle to adequately convey “thanks” to such a multitude, who helped me in the most tremendous of ways. If I’m honest, writing individual thank-you notes still overwhelms me.
I’m writing this letter so you all know that I am forever grateful for the way you poured out support and kindness to me and my loved ones during our darkest days. I praise God for you, whether your name is familiar, or if we have never seen each other’s faces. From the depths of my healing heart and in honor of all our fallen, especially Eric, thank you!
— N.C. West
Kansas City, Missouri
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