Advice

Wayne and Wanda realize the potential pitfalls of the holiday visit, but say the positives of going outweigh the potential negatives.

Relationship advice: He already ruined one holiday season. Be careful before you give him the ability to ruin another.

Wayne and Wanda stress that communication is key and the couple needs to make an honest assessment of their future.

Relationship advice: Try exploring your travel compatibility by finding a destination that has something for all parties involved.

Relationship advice: Take this as a sign that she’s willing to have tough conversations so you both can continue forward with a clean slate, clear conscious and open dialogue.

Both Wayne and Wanda have a few divergent suggestions on how changing up a routine could change a dour outlook on winter.

Wayne and Wanda offer differing points of view on how to ease the situation, but neither have little time for hurtful misunderstandings over individual life choices.

Relationship advice: On the one hand, that routine is chipping away at quality time. On the other, is a daily 1-mile run that big a deal?

Relationship advice: Giving up some of your own space to make room for your partner can be difficult, but compromise here is key.

Advice column: Being the best friend possible at this time may mean sidelining your own emotions, and any awkwardness you’re feeling, to focus on being supportive.

Wayne and Wanda believe that communication and compromise make for a strong marriage, not necessarily rings and name changes.

Relationship advice: It’s time to move on to someone who will make you a priority.

Working out for 30 minutes every day might not be enough to counter the health issues created by prolonged sitting.

Relationship advice: Communication is key, and this couple needs to discuss why the seemingly benign act had such a negative impact.

Relationship advice: Constant demands to get physical followed by arguing and tantrums — all of that speaks to issues rooted in an emotionally troubled space.

Relationship advice: Although the refrain of “it’s not you, it’s me” has become cliché, sometimes it’s best to recognize when you’ve done all you can for a relationship.

Wayne and Wanda realize that sometimes the time and energy invested in a relationship make it difficult to make a change, but one may be necessary.

Advice: Staying at his place might be a good first step, but if he’s not into it, there might be a bigger problem at hand.

Relationship advice: Seeking counseling together should help keep lines of communication to stay open and elevate his emotional intelligence.

Advice: It’s time for a frank conversation about boundaries, and it may even be best for the friend to find a place of his own.

Our relationship advice columnists say the ex’s outreach raises a number of red flags.

Wayne and Wanda recognize the difficult scenario, but urge a shift in focus and priorities.

Advice column: “Jeff” has even rekindled his dating life, but Wayne and Wanda advise it’s time to give him a push toward returning toward independence.